I AM HAVING A MELTDOWN
“Is it hard to meet girls who take you as a real person, not a pop star?” x
Heteronormativity-Rejecting Harry Styles refuses to use gendered pronouns and doesn’t care what anyone infers from that because he just likes people.
trigger warning: feelings about british boy bands
Okay, so Louis and Niall are my favorites and all, but I think I probably have the most respect for Harry. Because he gets so much shit, for his perceived sexuality, for his relationship with an older woman, for having harmless fun, and instead of trying to mitigate or explain himself or apologize, he does stuff like this. When he gets asked questions in interviews that seem to objectify women, he points them out and refuses to objectify anyone in his answers. When asked questions about women in general, he makes an unspoken point of always being gender-neutral in his responses, even when unnecessary. Even in the face of obnoxious media speculation about his sexuality, he goes out to gay bars and wears his “Love is Equal” shirt and doesn’t apologize or explain himself because he has nothing to be sorry for and shouldn’t have to and UGH I JUST HAVE A LOT OF ONE DIRECTION FEELS THAT COME FROM NOWHERE I DON’T UNDERSTAND
I’m so mad I have feels about this.
I try so hard to hate Harry because Louis loves him, but ugh.
HELEPO ME IHELP HMELP EM HKELP